A self help book by Leil Lowndes who used to be in the shys community but manage to overcome the debilitating shyness herself by indulge to these 85 proven techniques. What’s the secret into her tagline “Say hello to new friends, new business opportunities, new love and new confidence”??. So let’s…

#1. Don’t tell strangers that you are shy but save for the closest friends and relatives.

#2. Forbid family and friends to call you ‘shy’

#3. Tell yourself “no one knows i’m shy”

#4. Force yourself to conciously notice other people, meaning that try to observe their appearance and confidence level

#5. Compile the list of jitters (people/event that may be intimidate you

#6. Categorizes the painful situation from the least challenging to the one that make you sweat all over

#7. Now go design the programme to challenge your fear according to the list- Break into small activity

#8. Act like a demented duck soon as you wake up in the morning. Energise yourself. Fly as high as you can

#9. This is important – Find a sociable same sex friend. A plus point to meet new people

#10. Introduce topics to bring up in a conversation. Make sure you’re the expert in that topic

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I’ll leave the other rest of 75 for ya’ll to read. Guess it’s my pleasure to learn all your new tips Mrs Lowndes… I’m pretty sure it will be beneficial for those who want to prepare for any upcoming event from party, work function, interview, date and any events of life.

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p/s- It sure will help those dude (i mean shys) who need a life partner now. Grab this book and say hello to those bomb diggiti yo’ girls