Long Distance Relationships, can we work it out? It’s a hard thing to do, but certainly there’s people who can endure it.

I don’t need to search too far to take an example. It happened to my parents. My father need to leave my mother with his 2 sons and a little girl (my old sister) in our hometown, while he survived alone working at the city. Must be hard! the time alone (economy down) is hard, plus adding to stay and thinking to feed 4 head at our hometown… He cannot afford to bring all my family to the city, no house, no money to start on. Just energy and maybe some money that was only enough for himself. I don’t really know the situation.  When I was born, my father was still alone in the city. working.

Yet they still together. My father once said, it was not easy to be alone, at that time people do anything to survived. Lust is everywhere. Back then, I was not really sure, but I think I understand right now. We cannot loose our self.

Trust.

We’ve discussed about this matter few months before she fly. This is the test for our relationship. This post is written 30 days after she fly, and I still think about her.